Virtual Vigil Public Service Announcement: Honor Ivory McCuen

Sunday, 18 April 2021, 5 pm PT

At that time click: tinyurl.com/ivorypeer

This is a free webinar in honor of the late Ivory McCuen (1990-2021).

Ivory died homeless of exposure at the age of 30 on 24 Jan. 2021 at 17th & Chambers in Eugene, Oregon. Ivory was a mother of two boys, and a frequent user of the mental health system. Ivory was known for her love of nature, art, and singing.

Live music by folksinger David Rogers

Speakers include:

  • Breezy Smith, Ivory’s sister
  • Reverend Lois Van Leer, UU Church in Eugene
  • Eric Jackson, homeless rights activist
  • Merri “Kitty” Carlisle & David Oaks, co-chairs of UUCE ATF
  • Chuck Areford, retired mental health worker
  • Christina Peirsol, NAMI Lane County
  • Jacek “Jack” Haciak, Oregonians with Lived Experience
  • Rachel Levy, Rethinking Psychiatry
  • Rev. Phillip Schulman

ASL Interpreting by Patrick Galasso, Closed Captioning ㏄ Available

Co-sponsored by:

  • Unitarian Universalist Church in Eugene Community (UUCE)
  • UUCE Accessibility Task Force
  • CareWorks of Lane County
  • MindFreedom International
  • MindFreedom Oregon
  • Oregonians with Lived Experience of the Mental Health System
  • Extinction Rebellion Justice Eugene
  • Planet versus Pentagon
  • Rethinking Psychiatry
  • Aciu! Institute

Ivory’s obituary in Eugene Weekly: tinyurl.com/ivory-eugene

Donations in honor of Ivory can be made to White Bird’s crisis team, CAHOOTS.

For more information, to co-sponsor, or to reach organizers: ivorypeer@gmail.com or 541-914-1469

For the Facebook event page for this Virtual Vigil, click here.

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Eugene Men Who Survived Sexual Assault Now Have Free Weekly Support Meetup

Photo of Eugene, Oregon, USA showing butte and clouds in background behind downtown.

Eugene, Oregon, USA.

Thankfully, the USA culture is discussing more than ever the hidden oppression of sexual assault against women. However, men who have had their lives disrupted by unwanted or abusive sexual experiences might not have felt the same level of support or not known where to turn. A local respected nonprofit here in Eugene, Oregon, Sexual Assault Support Services, has mainly worked with female survivors, but they have a resource for male survivors.

Many group meetings for counseling have a formal expectation for attending, but this meetup is more informal, and participants may decide to drop in at the last minute, and may attend any of the weekly gatherings or take a break. Their choice. The group has two experienced, thoughtful and supportive counselors to help the peer support be empowered but safe.

Below is from their flyer, the group is active now, January 2018. If you want to double check that the group is being held each week, check their website.

From the SASS flyer about the Eugene, Oregon weekly men’s meetup:

MEN’S MEET-UP

You are invited to be a part of a free & confidential mentoring group lead by trained facilitators who work to strategize with, & empower men who have experienced unwanted sexual contact at any point in their life. Come, be of support to others & find support for yourself!

This group is for self-identified males 18+

When: Thursday’s 4:30 to 6:00 PM

Where: 591 West 19th Ave. Eugene (Corner of 19th & Jefferson), Oregon. Call with questions, or just drop in! Door locks at 4:35 as no late arrivals allowed.

Questions? Contact Rebecca, SASS counselor, @ 541-484-9791 ex. 315 or supportgroup@sass-lane.org

Sexual Assault Support Services

24/7 Support: 541-343-7277

Business: 541-484-9791

SASS services are always free!

[To repeat, SASS is the respected sponsor of this free weekly meetup. MindFreedom Oregon and I are not organizers, but are strong endorsers and you can find our listing of this event on fb here: https://www.facebook.com/events/354136108328973/ ]

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Tomorrow, Tues, 6/27/2017, Join Us in Rush Hour Resistance, Eugene!

Join us speaking out about the unfortunate choice of too-many American voters: Climate crisis denier Pres. Donald Trump.

Say “no” to Pres. Trump’s bizarre & dangerous activities such as climate crisis denial.

My amazing wife Debra Nunez and I will join in the free peaceful fun tomorrow by the new Federal Bldg in Eugene, OR, across from Whole Foods.

More details can be found on this website:

https://rushhourresistance.org/

We have also put some info on Facebook, please say you are going and spread the word:

https://www.facebook.com/events/145036316069466/

Hope to see you there, if you know anyone in Eugene, please spread the word. Wherever you are, you may have some good feedback, please use the comment area below. As long as you are civil, all points of view are welcome.

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Violet Oaks, Mom, Would Be 100 Years Old March 29, 2017!

Dear friends, relatives, and readers! 

My mother, our #1 volunteer at MindFreedom International office for a decade.

If you ever met my mother, Violet Oaks, you know that she almost always smiled. Wednesday, March 29, 2017, she would have turned 100 years old. She died just short of her 98th birthday, apparently in her sleep over at the Eugene Hotel, an active retirement center that she lived in her last decade here in Eugene, Oregon.

If you did not know my Mom, her smile may reach you somehow. At bottom is a little letter that I shared with some friends and relatives.

You will find links with bio info, still photos, and lots of videos.

I will remember Mom in many ways. For example, this Saturday, April Fool’s Day, April 1, 2017, at 6 pm, at Kesey Square, in downtown Eugene, a little troupe of us will be doing a free street theatre skit, Ghost Buskers. For me, I dedicate this to Mom’s memory. Yes, I am the fool, but Mom loved the world even though foolishness appears to be our universal holiday. For those of you in Eugene, more info on Facebook here: https://www.facebook.com/events/1747190835570892/

Or you can download this flyer: ghost-buskers-free-20170401-flyer

“Mom, I hope you do not mind if I tell the world that your spirit lives through the kindness we show one another!” I will hopefully sow peace and love, now and throughout my life, or at least try. Sowing kindness was kind of a mantra for Mom.  Mom and I, like many of our relatives, have Lithuanian heritage and Chicago connections.

In her 80’s Mom left her beloved Illinois and I had the immense pleasure and honor of being close with her for about a decade. Incredibly, for the first few years she volunteered about two or three days per week, almost every week, at our MindFreedom office, where I worked as Executive Director. Mom probably touched and filed every single paper in the entire office, and she was “old school” which means she worked in a focused way from beginning to end. Even into her 90’s, Mom volunteered there about one day a week. Only in her final years did she stay at home, and even then she supported my activism for human rights and mental health.

One quick story: About the fifth time I was locked up in a psychiatric institution way back in the 1970’s, I learned from an activist from Mental Patients Liberation Front how to submit a “three day letter” which would force them to release me or go to court. The head psychiatrist phoned up Mom.

He said, “We would like to go to court to commit David.”

Mom famously replied, “If our David wants to try freedom, we support him.”

Yes, I was very troubled, but Mom knew that the inner me was far more complex than the mental health system recognized, apparently. Mom would say later, “They did not know who you were.”

Mom and the rest of our home family, Dad, brother Tony and Uncle Al, were all there to attend my graduation in a few months in 1977, 40 years ago.

Thanks Mom, for supporting freedom!

Hi everyone,
Just a note that our mom, Violet Oaks, would have turned 100 today, and I wanted to reach out and mark the occasion.
Mom of course was so very nice that any fashion of marking this occasion would be fine with her. Here are some still photos and videos to share.
Feel free to forward this, and I will post this on the GageParkOaks group on Facebook. Thanks!
There are a bunch of photos of mom in the gallery for her online memorial here: http://violet-elizabeth-oaks.forevermissed.com/
And we put a few hours of video on YouTube here:
VIOLET OAKS’ VIDEOS ON YOUTUBE (updated list):
David’s Birthday 1995 http://youtu.be/oZzvp1LiREg
David’s Birthday 1997 & 1998 http://youtu.be/a1pNUse0YYg
Mom’s Birthday 1997 http://youtu.be/NnIMeCdUXq0
Violet Oaks 2001 Oral History Part 1 http://youtu.be/7uFloB5mOqE
Violet Oaks 2001 Oral History Part 2 http://youtu.be/gfMK0guHDh4
Coast Videos Part 1 http://youtu.be/BkKbj2HA6qA
And here is a YouTube video of the grave side ceremony in Chicago, thanks: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jCXejV9ImYw
Love,
David​
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My Return to Sam Bond’s: Stand-up Comedy (Or Should I Say Lean-back) This Saturday

You can download free one-page flier here: oaks-flier-20170225

David W. Oaks drawing by artist Isaac Paris c 2016

David W. Oaks portrait by Isaac Paris c 2016

Free!

This Saturday:

David Oaks, stand up comic

…or should we say lean back comic

One of many at Bleepin’ Funny,

Sam Bond’s, 407 Blair, Eugene, OR

Saturday, February 25, 2017, 5 pm – 7pm.

Get there early and eat, drink, and tip well!

More info at http://www.sambonds.com/

Or https://www.facebook.com/events/210853359381221/

 

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